Break out of stuck patterns, rebuild closeness, and create a relationship that feels alive again.
Couples Therapy
with Beth Pierce, MFT
I specialize in working with individuals and couples who are ready for real change. Together, we’ll uncover the patterns holding you back, develop strategies that work in the real world, and empower you to create the balance, fulfillment, and relationships you deserve.
Break out of stuck patterns, rebuild closeness, and create a relationship that feels alive again.
Couples Therapy
with Beth Pierce, MFT
I specialize in working with individuals and couples who are ready for real change. Together, we’ll uncover the patterns holding you back, develop strategies that work in the real world, and empower you to create the balance, fulfillment, and relationships you deserve.
In 90 days, love in a way that feels active and alive, create a relationship that includes depth, effort, and growth, and end the quiet sadness that's only surviving on logistics and history.
In 90 days, love in a way that feels active and alive, create a relationship that includes depth, effort, and growth, and end the quiet sadness that's only surviving on logistics and history.
Your relationship isn’t broken; you’re just ready for more.
This is the *No More “Meh” Method," a 9-step roadmap that helps you move from functional but disconnected to fully alive and emotionally connected, without losing yourself or pretending things are fine when they’re not.
Your relationship isn’t broken; you’re just ready for more.
This is the *No More “Meh” Method," a 9-step roadmap that helps you move from functional but disconnected to fully alive and emotionally connected, without losing yourself or pretending things are fine when they’re not.
Phase 1
Decode the Cycles
Start making sense of why things feel off, and find language for what’s really happening, without blame or bypassing.
Step 1: Make Sense of the Patterns
Trace repeated emotional loops that keep showing up in your relationship
Spot the signs of shutdown, blame, or distance before they spiral
Understand what to do when everything looks fine on the outside, but something still feels off
Start therapy by mapping out the relationship cycles you’ve been stuck in
Step 2: Identify the Thoughts You Keep Shoving Down
Name the parts of you that feel dismissed, silenced, or guilty for wanting more
Recognize the emotional needs you’ve been pushing aside to keep the peace
Clarify the difference between healthy compromise and emotional minimization
Explore the deeper fears behind your relationship anxiety
Step 3: Develop the Language to Name What’s Real
Find clear, grounded words for what’s happening so you can communicate without blame or shutdown
Practice saying hard truths with care, especially when you’re not sure how they’ll land
Find the words for the ache that lives underneath your resentment or confusion
Phase 1
Decode the Cycles
Start making sense of why things feel off, and find language for what’s really happening—without blame or bypassing.
Step 1: Make Sense of the Patterns
Trace repeated emotional loops that keep showing up in your relationship
Spot the signs of shutdown, blame, or distance before they spiral
Understand what to do when everything looks fine on the outside but something still feels off
Start therapy by mapping out the relationship cycles you’ve been stuck in
Step 2: Identify the Thoughts You Keep Shoving Down
Name the parts of you that feel dismissed, silenced, or guilty for wanting more
Recognize the emotional needs you’ve been pushing aside to keep the peace
Clarify the difference between healthy compromise and emotional minimization
Use counseling sessions to explore the deeper fears behind your relationship anxiety
Step 3: Identify the Thoughts You Keep Shoving Down
Name the parts of you that feel dismissed, silenced, or guilty for wanting more
Recognize the emotional needs you’ve been pushing aside to keep the peace
Clarify the difference between healthy compromise and emotional minimization
Use counseling sessions to explore the deeper fears behind your relationship anxiety
Phase 2
Clarify the Needs
Speak up without spiraling; connect without self-abandoning.
Step 4: Recognize What You’ve Been Giving Up Just To Keep Things Stable
Communicate what you need, even when it's inconvenient or risky
Notice where you’ve been disappearing just to avoid conflict in your relationship
Identify where your behavior is compensating for your partner’s discomfort
Surface the deeper exhaustion behind keeping the marriage looking “fine” on the outside
Step 5: Stay Emotionally Present While Navigating Differences
Speak up even when your needs feel different than your partner’s
Regulate yourself in the middle of emotional mismatch without shutting down
Stay connected during counseling without appeasing, fixing, or disappearing
Build tools in couples therapy to hold both your truth and theirs without collapse
Step 6: Stop Reverting Back To Old Negative Behaviors That Offer Short-Term Relief
Break the cycle of pleasing, avoiding, or over-functioning when things get hard
Understand why old patterns in your marriage feel familiar but don’t actually help
Learn to pause instead of defaulting to behaviors that keep you stuck
Use relationship therapy to replace knee-jerk reactions with values-based choices
Phase 3
Design What Happens Next
Move beyond logistics and performative closeness—toward a relationship that’s honest, chosen, and fully alive.
Step 7: Create Intimacy That Goes Beyond Logistics
Reconnect as a couple without relying on guilt or obligation to prove your love
Shift from roommates to partners by rebuilding emotional closeness in therapy
Take responsibility for your role in the distance without collapsing into shame
Rebuild connection without swinging between over-functioning and withdrawal
Find new ways to reach each other emotionally, physically, and conversationally
Step 8: Redefine Partnership On Your Terms
Redefine effort and care in your relationship in concrete, livable ways
Renegotiate roles and address invisible labor that’s draining your connection
Stop parenting each other emotionally and start being true partners again
Build a marriage that reflects mutual standards and real curiosity—not just compromise
Use couples counseling to co-create a partnership that works for both of you
Step 9: Choose A Future That Feels Fully Alive
Integrate what you’ve learned so you stop repeating the same emotional patterns
Choose clarity over comfort when the old way no longer fits
Reclaim joy, emotional aliveness, and momentum in your relationship
Live in alignment with your values—not just your history or routines
Trust yourself again and move forward with purpose and connection
No More “Meh” — Reconnect with What Matters Most
You don’t have to settle for a relationship that feels like it’s running on autopilot. If things feel flat, distant, or just not like they used to be—it doesn’t mean you’re broken. It means you’re ready for something deeper. This method gives you a practical, step-by-step way to understand what’s been happening, communicate what you really need, and build a connection that feels alive again. You’ll stop the quiet resentment and start creating a future you actually want to be part of—together.
What We're Going to Cover
You don’t need to keep pretending you’re fine when something inside keeps whispering that you’re not. Beth’s approach helps you move from emotional chaos and overthinking into grounded, honest connection—with yourself and your partner. Whether you’re unsure about staying or terrified to leave, this work is about reclaiming clarity, self-trust, and the ability to love without self-betrayal.
Reclaiming Self-Trust and Emotional Clarity
Learn to recognize when your reactions are rooted in past pain—and respond without spiraling into shame
Build the capacity to express regret without collapsing into self-blame or begging to be reassured
Stop questioning if you’re too much or not enough—and start naming what’s real, even if it’s hard
Rebuilding Connection Without Self-Betrayal
Communicate needs without guilt or manipulation, even if you were never shown how
Get out of the rut of “just dealing with it” and start designing a relationship that feels fully alive
Repair intimacy without relying on pressure, performance, or pretending to be fine
Redefining Partnership on Your Terms
Decide what kind of love you want to grow—not just what you’re willing to tolerate
Find clarity when the pressure to have kids or stay together is louder than your own truth
Make peace with your past so you can lead your relationship with choice, not fear
Meet Beth Pierce, MFT
I’m a wife, a mom, a daughter, a sister, a lifelong learner, a cancer survivor, a friend, and a Bay Area native. I’m also a career switcher who knows what it’s like to make big changes and ask hard questions along the way.
Like many of my clients, I’ve wrestled with identity, confidence, anxiety, relationship dynamics, and purpose. And I’ve experienced the power of therapy to create deep and lasting change. I’d be honored to walk alongside you as you navigate your own version of growth.
I understand what it’s like to want more from your life and relationships—and to feel unsure where to begin. You don’t have to figure it out alone.
Phase 2
Do It Differently
Put insight into action and start creating change in real time.
Step 4: Communicate What You Need, Even When It's Inconvenient
Speak directly and calmly about what matters most, even when it feels easier to withdraw or appease.
Notice where you’ve been disappearing just to avoid conflict in your relationship
Identify where your behavior is compensating for your partner’s discomfort
Surface the deeper exhaustion behind keeping the marriage looking “fine” on the outside
Step 5: Stay Emotionally Present While Navigating Differences
Practice staying open and curious when things get tense, rather than retreating or reacting.
Speak up even when your needs feel different than your partner’s
Regulate yourself in the middle of emotional mismatch without shutting down
Stay connected during counseling without appeasing, fixing, or disappearing
Build tools in couples therapy to hold both your truth and theirs without collapse
Step 6: Stop Reverting Back To Old Negative Behaviors That Offer Short-Term Relief
Catch those protective habits before they take over, and choose actions that actually support the relationship you want.
Break the cycle of pleasing, avoiding, or over-functioning when things get hard
Understand why old patterns in your marriage feel familiar but don’t actually help
Use relationship therapy to replace knee-jerk reactions with values-based choices
Phase 3
Design What Happens Next
Turn awareness into action and create lasting change.
Step 7: Create Intimacy That Goes Beyond Logistics
Rebuild closeness through small, meaningful moments that remind you why you chose each other
Shift from roommates to partners by rebuilding emotional closeness in therapy
Rebuild connection without swinging between over-functioning and withdrawal
Find new ways to reach each other emotionally, physically, and conversationally
Step 8: Redefine Partnership On Your Terms
Align around what partnership means for you now, not what it’s “supposed” to look like.
Redefine effort and care in your relationship in concrete, livable ways
Renegotiate roles and address invisible labor that’s draining your connection
Stop parenting each other emotionally and start being true partners again
Build a marriage that reflects mutual standards and real curiosity, not just compromise
Use couples counseling to co-create a partnership that works for both of you
Step 9: Choose A Future That Feels Fully Alive
Keep evolving together, intentionally designing a relationship that feels vibrant, secure, and true to who you both are.
Integrate what you’ve learned so you stop repeating the same emotional patterns
Live in alignment with your values, not just your history or routines
Trust yourself again and move forward with purpose and connection
No More “Meh” or "Just ok."
Reconnect with What Matters Most
You don’t have to settle for a relationship that feels like it’s running on autopilot. If things feel flat, distant, or just not like they used to be, it doesn’t mean you’re broken. It means you’re ready for something deeper.
This method gives you a practical, step-by-step way to understand what’s been happening, communicate what you really need, and build a connection that feels alive again.
You’ll stop the quiet resentment and start creating a future you actually want to be part of, together.
What We're Going to Cover
You don’t need to keep pretending you’re fine when something inside keeps whispering that you’re not. Beth’s approach helps you move from emotional chaos and overthinking into grounded, honest connection with yourself and your partner. Whether you’re unsure about staying or terrified to leave, this work is about reclaiming clarity, self-trust, and the ability to love without self-betrayal.
Reclaiming Self-Trust and Emotional Clarity
Learn to recognize when your reactions are rooted in past pain, and respond without spiraling into shame
Build the capacity to express regret without collapsing into self-blame or begging to be reassured
Stop questioning if you’re too much or not enough, and start naming what’s real, even if it’s hard
Rebuilding Connection Without Self-Betrayal
Communicate needs without guilt or manipulation, even if you were never shown how
Get out of the rut of “just dealing with it” and start designing a relationship that feels fully alive
Repair intimacy without relying on pressure, performance, or pretending to be fine
Redefining Partnership on Your Terms
Decide what kind of love you want to grow, not just what you’re willing to tolerate
Find clarity when the pressure to have kids or stay together is louder than your own truth
Make peace with your past so you can lead your relationship with choice, not fear
Meet Beth Pierce, MFT
"I’m a wife, a mom, a daughter, a sister, a lifelong learner, a cancer survivor, a friend, and a Bay Area native.
I’m also a career switcher who knows what it’s like to make big changes and ask hard questions along the way.
Like many of my clients, I’ve wrestled with identity, confidence, anxiety, relationship dynamics, and purpose.
And I’ve experienced the power of therapy to create deep and lasting change.
I’d be honored to walk alongside you as you navigate your own version of growth.
I understand what it’s like to want more from your life and relationships, and to feel unsure where to begin. You don’t have to figure it out alone.
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How does this program work?
This program is structured as weekly video sessions over a 90-day period. From the comfort and privacy of your home, you’ll find that the natural environment allows you to privately talk about what really matters and practice new tools in real time. Each session targets different phases crucial for couples. We cover expressing needs, navigating emotional reactions, and rebuilding trust. The sessions include practical exercises, personalized discussions, and continuous support to ensure significant improvements in understanding, emotional connection, and communication within your relationship."
What's covered in the program?
This program covers essential aspects necessary for re-engaging with one another. We focus on enhancing communication, managing emotional reactions, advocating for personal needs, and fostering intimacy. You’ll learn how to break negative cycles, communicate effectively even under stress, express needs without fear, and ultimately strengthen your emotional bond."
Who is this program for, and not for?
This therapy is ideal for individuals and couples eager to change and improve their relationships. It’s particularly beneficial for those experiencing communication breakdowns, emotional struggles, feelings of disconnection, or ruptures in trust. If you’re looking for quick fixes or are not ready to engage in the therapeutic work, this might not be the right fit for you."
What if I’m still not sure?
It’s completely normal to feel uncertain about starting a therapy program. That’s why we offer a free initial consultation. This session will help us understand your unique challenges and goals, and you’ll learn how our program might address your specific needs. It’s a no-pressure opportunity to see if this approach feels right for you and your partner."
You’re Not Broken. You’re Just Ready for More
This work isn’t about fixing you. It’s about giving you the tools, language, and clarity to make aligned decisions in your relationship and in your life, without spiraling into shame or shutting down your needs to keep the peace.
You’re Not Broken—You’re Just Ready for More
This work isn’t about fixing you. It’s about giving you the tools, language, and clarity to make aligned decisions in your relationship and in your life—without spiraling into shame or shutting down your needs to keep the peace.
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